True soul union

True conjugal love admits of no other, it must stand heart to heart, soul to soul. True soul union must be just as one intuitively feels that it ought to be – it must work hand in hand; soul must match soul; each mind must be as clear and as open to the other as the day. One must not take prerogatives that one would not expect the other to take; in fact, neither must take prerogatives; whatever they do in life must be mutual or the true conjugal value is lost and they, even if they are the true counterparts of each other, will be obliged to wait until they become spirits, when the balance will again be found. One should not do anything that causes the other unhappiness; whatever one does that causes the other unhappiness is radically wrong and will end in estranging their hearts and separating their hands. 

Professor Franz Petersilea (Spirit)