You can influence your absent loved ones.

You can influence and almost control your absent loved ones.

Your thoughts are constantly with the absent loved ones, and they are conscious of them.

If you are blaming or thinking ill of them, they feel it.

If you allow jealousy to rankle within your breast, they become uneasy and unhappy, or sad and dejected.

Never allow or harbour a single thought of an absent loved one except it be of the most loving and forgiving nature; no matter how perverse or guilty of neglect that one might be, you can never make them better by thinking ill of them. 

On the contrary, by cherishing the highest and best thoughts possible, you are often the means of reforming even the guilty ones on earth. 

How often a mother has been the means of reforming a wayward and absent boy. It is said her prayers were answered. She prayed that her boy might be good or if he had gone astray, his feet might be turned into the paths of virtue. 

But the answer to those prayers is not the direct response from a personal God, but the earnest thought of the mother reaches her boy, wherever that boy may be, and influences that boy to be virtuous and good; and the same law holds good with all, more especially, with soul mates or counterparts, for one-half cannot suffer without the other half suffering too. 

One half cannot bear an ill or jealous thought of the other half without that other half being depressed in consequence. 

More than this, you can compel that other half to return to you by earnestly desiring it and continually calling in all loving kindness. 

In fact, you can influence and almost control your absent loved ones.

The Discovered Country